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Got a girls phone number, now what?
so i saw this girl 3 months ago at my friends business, talked to her for a while, she works there. Then i didn't go for about 3 months, came back tonight, saw her, she started talking to me, then we had a little conversation, then since she was busy working and i was there just hanging out, we started talking on and off throughout the night. I asked her if she was seeing some one, then she said NO, so i said, how about i text you sometimes and we can hang out, then she was like ok. I did it with confidence, was very smooth about it and played it cool the whole night
I gave her my number, she text so i can get hers, it seems like we both have busy lifes, since i run a business and work 6 days a week. She works and goes to school full time.
I am not just trying to get into her pants, i think she is smart, nice and sweet. She looks decent. I am 6'1 bodybuilder, six abs and all that, decent looking face, ( i have been called cute, pretty face, all that) confident about myself.
Only problem i have is i was raised to treat women with respect, be a gentleman, open doors, pay for diner, give them my jacket when they get cold and hold their hand as we walk together kinda guy. I am basically the good nice guy that women need, but don't really want until they been through the block a few times, possibly messed up bad with a kid and wanna settle down, sadly that's when i become prince charming all of the sudden.
My question goes mostly to the guys who know the game, maybe even girls. Please don't tell me to be a gentleman, It never worked, i am 25, never had a girlfriend cause of my *** kissing all the time, i get treated like **** from most women for being a good respectful gentleman, so i know that doesn't work. So please tell me about the game, it's the weekend, i know i am NOT gonna text till Monday cause i have plans already.
Is Monday a good time to text her and what should i say, how long should i text for before taking her out? My friend told me she flirts with the guys that approach her, so i am not exactly very special and it seems like i have to compete, but i would like to at least try.
tell me everything i need to know. I was taught the old fashion way, where women used to appreciate a good guy, modern women are hard to talk to, and you can never do something right, so for all the guys and girls out there who know what to do, please help me out
Thank you :)
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